Relationship Support
For Couples Raising Neurosparkly Kids
Your Relationship CAN Rise...
Listen up, beautiful disasters. If you’re struggling under the weight of parenting neurodiverse kids, it’s no surprise. You’re both running on fumes because these kids need SO MUCH MORE from you; you’re doing meltdown gymnastics, solving the meal-by-meal food challenges, managing therapies, sleep deprivation and then some… It’s a LOT!
But every relationship can rise, even yours.
Days In Hell Year
Years Married
Years Coaching
NeuroSparkly Kids
The Typical Relationship Advice Just Doesn't Work For Couples Like You...
Your Kids Take Up 90%+ Of You
Your time, energy, and focus! You’re managing normal kid stuff PLUS meltdowns, therapies, specialist appointments, and then some, without having your own breakdown.
Just Communicate Better, They Say...
That just feels laughable when you’re both too tired to form sentences and in the midst of your kids having a massive meltdown! Survival communication is the best you can do.
Get Away For Date Nights?!?!
Never mind that you’re too exhausted to get dressed up and go out, how on earth do you find and fund babysitters who can actually handle your neurosparkly kids?
Get Therapy?
Every therapy session costs what you spend on groceries and anyone who has neurodiverse kids knows there are a heap of hidden costs trying to raise them. Plus the time?
Get Tools & Strategies For Connection During SURVIVAL Times
Who is Rach Wilson?
Relationship Coach. Trainer. Mentor. Mother to 4 (3 Neurosparkly and sometimes NeuroSPICY) Kids. Still Married Against All Odds.
My husband and I always had the fairytale relationship others aspired to. But when “hell year” hit with our 2 littlest, to say they were our darkest days together, is an understatement. Our relationship suffered, and with their ongoing challenges, we’ve had to adapt and implement new strategies to stay together.
Couples who have neurodiverse kids or kids with extra special needs are significantly more likely to end up separating. I’ve seen multiple different stats, but between 60% – 80% of relationships break down. Either way, the odds are stacked against us!
But what I do know is that our kids need us both, so we have to find ways to build stronger connections, better communication and strategies that keep us connected when in survival mode, AND when it ends, knowing how to reconnect, repair and rebuild.
My mission is to change the separation statistics by sharing tools and strategies that are easy to implement for the exhausted and overwhelmed, supporting you to build a better relationship amongst the neurospicy chaos, because you both deserve to thrive, not just survive!
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What Others Have To Say About Rach
I have worked with rach numerous times over the past few years. She sees people unlike many others out there do. I have also worked with many coaches and every time I work with them I’m left thinking – I don’t feel seen or heard by you, you aren’t adapting your coaching to suit me as an individual. Unlike Rach who can see everyone as an individual and will customise what she needs to do in order for that person to benefit.
Talking to Rach is always a really grounding experience. She manages to cut through my overthinking and gets to the heart of what is wrong and how to get to the other side. Cannot recommend her calm, wise approach to relationships enough.
Rach has been a beacon of light for me as I have navigated relationships again after experiencing narcissistic ones. She is patient, kind, and her depth of insight is world-class around how communication and dynamics can be effective in the right relationship. I highly recommend.